Anytime I would seek a need, I was every word under sun: spoiled, greedy, needy, ungrateful etc. Trying to fulfill need isn't the same as being needy.
Yes. You CAN do this. That's the first thing I need to say. I challenge my thoughts and yours. Prove yourself wrong.
I know I have made some dumb comments, and I appreciate when people bring it to my attention. I can't change unless I'm told.
Once I realized what was happening, I self-sabotaged myself with humour: calling myself a doormat or someone who stood pretty strait for someone with no backbone.
CRASH--SPLASH--TING! You have GOT to be kidding me.
It derives from Christian superstition: thirteen people were present the night before Jesus' death on Good Friday.
When you're in a lot of pain in one area, the focus tends to stay there. An odd side-effect of injections for pain is that your brain's now able to remind you that other areas are either bad, or worst, flat out busted.